Arrange Marriage.........biggest risk of life

Hi readers,

This is my extensive report on grooms available in the market.  After a long research, I find there are different kinds of variety available in the market.  You can choose as per your Budget and Preference. If you are lucky enough you we will find a batter mate with in your range else you have to compromise somewhere.  As said couples are made in heaven they are decided by your destiny.

One day I was thinking what will happen if there were not arrange marriage, I came to know if there were no arrange marriage people like me would be alone for entire life.  Kyonki hum jaise logo se khud to kuch hota nahi….Kidding.  Actually we are not ready to compromise.  Sometimes person I like they are already engage or most of the time person who likes me I do not see them as a best mate for myself…..tragic :(.  Let’s not talk about me…So here is my research.

When a middle class father goes to find a groom for her educated cultured daughter within his budget, he wants the boy should be good looking, financially stable and who is able to make her daughter happy.  Family should be educated and cultured.  During his search he comes across different kind of boys.  At first time he wanted to look everything in one boy but gradually he starts compromising.  

As I said there are categories.  One of them is serviceman, good looking, well educated with handsome earning does not have any affair this category is very difficult to find, but if it is available his price would be very high.  He would be very expensive, almost out of father’s budget….poor girl.  If they are agree to marry, your daughter is too lucky but in today’s scenario it is next to impossible.

The Second category is good looking, business man not educated.  No surety for future depends on family.  It is risk there are chances of failure of such relation.  But if you are ready to take the risk…your call.  If his business is very good again he would be very expensive.

So at the end I realize arrange marriage is matter of luck because in one or two meeting  your father or family can not make out how would be the boy so they give preference to the boy’s family. If the boys family is sound enough a father agrees to give her daughter to them now it’s the luck of boy and girl how much they the compatible for each other.  It depends on their understanding and maturity level.  If it matches very good if it does not match they have to compromise their entire life.

Just Move on.......

Just move on in life live as it comes.  Do not hold past whether, it was good or bad  it will give you pain. Whenever you will think about it your eyes will be wet.  Its tough to move on but its not impossible.  If nothing is working out leave it otherwise you will spoil it because it is your destiny you have to face it you have no control over it.  Bad time is always seems longer than good time so it is your true friend.  Yes forgetting the past is impossible but holding it is more panic it doest not let you live present.  Running away from the adverse situation is not the solution of the problem because I have seen the more you run the more you have to face it is your shadow wherever you will go, you will find it with you.  I have seen and realize,  The problem which forced me to take this decesion is stil with me the difference is just the face has changed.  In these situation the question which comes is what should I do and you do not have control over the situation.  Be calm have patience there will be a day which will be yours these thought should keep in mind..  No matter it comes true or not but it will give you the courage to live life otherwise you would gone mad.  Keep try your luck untill it gets batter but do not loose patience.  Accept you weekness and the failure tr y to learn from it and always remember it was your deceision you have to respect it is not that bad as you are taking it.  Success does not come in a day you have to earn it.  You can earn a thing only when you work continously, smartly and most impotant you never stop yourself.  A bad ecperience atleast gives you an experience.